/* Palette pulled from the portrait: greige suit, mauve-taupe backdrop, slate-green tie.
   One accent (slate green). Radius system: cards 18px, buttons 12px, chips pill. */
:root{
  --bg:#F1F1EB;
  --surface:#FAFAF6;
  --sage:#DDDCCF;
  --taupe:#A29797;
  --taupe-tint:#E4DEDC;
  --ink:#232C29;
  --muted:#56615D;
  --line:#DCDBD1;
  --field:#7D8782;
  --accent:#3B5750;
  --accent-hover:#2C433D;
  --on-accent:#F6F6F0;
  --tint:#E3E8E0;
  --r-card:18px; --r-btn:12px;
  --shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(35,44,41,.05), 0 12px 32px -18px rgba(35,44,41,.18);
  --ease:cubic-bezier(.16,1,.3,1);
}

*{box-sizing:border-box}
html{scroll-behavior:smooth;scroll-padding-top:84px}
body{margin:0;background:var(--bg);color:var(--ink);font-family:"Geist",system-ui,-apple-system,"Segoe UI",Roboto,sans-serif;font-size:17px;line-height:1.65;-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased}
img{display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto}
a{color:inherit}
h1,h2,h3{margin:0;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:1.12}
p{margin:0}
.wrap{max-width:1180px;margin:0 auto;padding:0 24px}
:focus-visible{outline:3px solid var(--accent);outline-offset:3px;border-radius:6px}
.skip{position:absolute;left:-999px;top:8px;background:var(--accent);color:var(--on-accent);padding:10px 16px;border-radius:var(--r-btn);z-index:50}
.skip:focus{left:8px}

/* Buttons */
.btn{display:inline-flex;align-items:center;justify-content:center;white-space:nowrap;background:var(--accent);color:var(--on-accent);text-decoration:none;font-weight:600;font-size:1rem;padding:14px 26px;border-radius:var(--r-btn);border:2px solid var(--accent);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background .25s var(--ease),transform .2s var(--ease),color .25s var(--ease)}
.btn:hover{background:var(--accent-hover);border-color:var(--accent-hover)}
.btn:active{transform:scale(.98)}
.btn.ghost{background:transparent;color:var(--accent)}
.btn.ghost:hover{background:var(--accent);color:var(--on-accent);border-color:var(--accent)}
.btn.small{padding:10px 20px;font-size:.95rem}

/* Nav */
.nav{position:sticky;top:0;z-index:20;background:color-mix(in srgb,var(--bg) 92%,transparent);backdrop-filter:blur(10px);-webkit-backdrop-filter:blur(10px);border-bottom:1px solid var(--line);transition:box-shadow .3s var(--ease)}
.nav.stuck{box-shadow:0 8px 24px -16px rgba(35,44,41,.35)}
.nav .wrap{display:flex;align-items:center;justify-content:space-between;gap:20px;height:68px}
.brand{font-weight:600;letter-spacing:-.01em;text-decoration:none;white-space:nowrap}
.brand span{color:var(--muted);font-weight:400}
.links{display:flex;gap:26px;list-style:none;margin:0;padding:0}
.links a{text-decoration:none;color:var(--muted);font-size:.95rem;white-space:nowrap;transition:color .2s}
.links a:hover,.links a[aria-current="page"]{color:var(--ink)}
.nav-right{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:12px}
.menu{display:none;position:relative}
.menu summary{list-style:none;cursor:pointer;padding:9px 16px;border:2px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--r-btn);font-size:.95rem;font-weight:500;background:var(--surface)}
.menu summary::-webkit-details-marker{display:none}
.menu ul{position:absolute;right:0;top:calc(100% + 10px);width:230px;margin:0;padding:10px;list-style:none;background:var(--surface);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--r-card);box-shadow:var(--shadow)}
.menu li a{display:block;padding:11px 14px;text-decoration:none;border-radius:10px;color:var(--ink)}
.menu li a:hover{background:var(--tint)}

/* Hero (home) */
.hero{padding:48px 0 72px}
.hero .wrap{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1.05fr .95fr;gap:56px;align-items:center;min-height:calc(100dvh - 68px - 120px)}
.hero h1{font-size:clamp(2.5rem,5.4vw,4.1rem);max-width:12ch}
.hero p.lead{margin:22px 0 32px;font-size:1.2rem;color:var(--muted);max-width:32em}
.actions{display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;gap:12px}
.portrait{background:var(--taupe);border-radius:var(--r-card);overflow:hidden;aspect-ratio:4/5;max-height:74dvh;justify-self:end;width:100%;box-shadow:var(--shadow)}
.portrait img{width:100%;height:100%;object-fit:cover;object-position:50% 12%}

/* Sections */
section{padding:88px 0}
h2{font-size:clamp(1.9rem,3.4vw,2.6rem);max-width:20ch}
.sub{margin-top:14px;color:var(--muted);max-width:56ch}

/* At a glance facts */
.facts{margin-top:36px;display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr 1fr;gap:28px 56px;max-width:920px}
.facts dt{font-size:.85rem;font-weight:600;color:var(--accent);letter-spacing:.02em}
.facts dd{margin:4px 0 0;color:var(--ink)}
.facts a{text-underline-offset:3px}

/* Bento */
.bento{margin-top:44px;display:grid;grid-template-columns:repeat(12,1fr);gap:16px}
.cell{border-radius:var(--r-card);padding:32px;display:flex;flex-direction:column;justify-content:flex-end;gap:10px;min-height:190px}
.cell h3{font-size:1.35rem}
.cell p{font-size:1rem;max-width:40ch}
.c-couples{grid-column:1/8;grid-row:1/3;background:var(--accent);color:var(--on-accent);min-height:400px}
.c-couples h3{font-size:clamp(1.7rem,3vw,2.3rem)}
.c-couples p{color:inherit;opacity:.9;font-size:1.05rem}
.c-individual{grid-column:8/13;background:var(--surface);border:1px solid var(--line)}
.c-adhd{grid-column:8/13;background:var(--sage)}
.c-adhd p,.c-individual p,.c-substance p{color:var(--muted)}
.c-substance{grid-column:1/6;background:var(--taupe-tint)}
.c-also{grid-column:6/13;background:var(--surface);border:1px solid var(--line);justify-content:center}
.text-link{color:inherit;font-weight:600;text-underline-offset:4px}
.chips{display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;gap:8px;padding:0;margin:6px 0 0;list-style:none}
.chip{background:var(--tint);color:var(--ink);padding:6px 14px;border-radius:999px;font-size:.9rem}

/* Feature band (infidelity teaser) */
.band{background:var(--surface);border-top:1px solid var(--line);border-bottom:1px solid var(--line)}
.band .wrap{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr auto;gap:40px;align-items:center}
.band p{color:var(--muted);margin-top:14px;max-width:58ch}

/* About */
.about{background:var(--surface);border-top:1px solid var(--line);border-bottom:1px solid var(--line)}
.about .wrap{display:grid;grid-template-columns:.85fr 1.15fr;gap:64px;align-items:center}
.about-img{border-radius:var(--r-card);overflow:hidden;background:var(--taupe)}
.about-img img{width:100%;height:auto}
.about h2{margin-bottom:22px}
.about p{color:var(--muted);margin-bottom:16px;max-width:56ch}
.creds{margin-top:26px;display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;gap:8px}
.faith{margin-top:22px;padding:20px 22px;border-radius:var(--r-card);background:var(--tint)}
.faith h3{font-size:1.05rem;margin-bottom:6px}
.faith p{margin:0;color:var(--ink);font-size:.98rem}

/* Steps */
.steps{margin-top:36px;max-width:760px}
.step{position:relative;display:grid;grid-template-columns:220px 1fr;gap:24px;padding:26px 0}
.step::before{content:"";position:absolute;top:0;left:0;right:0;height:1px;background:var(--line)}
.step:last-child{border-bottom:1px solid var(--line)}
.step h3{font-size:1.25rem}
.step p{color:var(--muted)}
.more{margin-top:26px}

/* Fees */
.fees{background:var(--sage)}
.fees .wrap{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr 1fr;gap:56px;align-items:start}
.fee-cards{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr 1fr;gap:16px}
.fee{background:var(--surface);border-radius:var(--r-card);padding:28px;box-shadow:var(--shadow)}
.fee .amt{font-size:2.6rem;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:-.03em;line-height:1}
.fee .lbl{margin-top:10px;color:var(--muted);font-size:.98rem}
.fee-note{grid-column:1/-1;color:var(--muted);font-size:.98rem;padding:4px 4px 0}
.fees h3{font-size:1.15rem;margin:30px 0 12px}
.fees .chip{background:var(--surface)}
.fees .sub{max-width:44ch}

/* Practical details */
.duo{margin-top:36px;display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr 1fr;gap:16px}
.panel{background:var(--surface);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--r-card);padding:30px}
.panel h3{font-size:1.25rem;margin-bottom:10px}
.panel p{color:var(--muted);margin-bottom:12px}
.panel p:last-child{margin-bottom:0}
.listing{display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;gap:16px 24px;align-items:center;justify-content:space-between;margin-top:16px;background:var(--tint);border-radius:var(--r-card);padding:24px 30px}
.listing p{color:var(--ink);max-width:56ch}
.listing strong{display:block;font-size:1.1rem;margin-bottom:2px}

/* FAQ */
.faq .wrap{max-width:820px}
.faq-list{margin-top:32px}
details.q{border-bottom:1px solid var(--line)}
details.q:first-child{border-top:1px solid var(--line)}
details.q summary{cursor:pointer;list-style:none;display:flex;justify-content:space-between;gap:16px;padding:22px 0;font-weight:500;font-size:1.1rem}
details.q summary::-webkit-details-marker{display:none}
details.q summary::after{content:"+";font-size:1.5rem;line-height:1;color:var(--accent);transition:transform .35s var(--ease)}
details.q[open] summary::after{content:"-"}
details.q p{padding:0 0 22px;color:var(--muted);max-width:62ch}
details.q p a{color:var(--accent);text-underline-offset:3px}

/* Contact band */
.contact{background:var(--accent);color:var(--on-accent);border-radius:var(--r-card);padding:64px 48px;margin-bottom:88px;position:relative;overflow:hidden;isolation:isolate}
.contact::before{content:"";position:absolute;inset:-40%;z-index:-1;background:radial-gradient(circle at 30% 40%,rgba(255,255,255,.14),transparent 45%),radial-gradient(circle at 75% 65%,rgba(255,255,255,.09),transparent 40%);pointer-events:none}
.contact h2{max-width:16ch}
.contact p{margin:16px 0 28px;opacity:.92;max-width:46ch}
.contact .btn{background:var(--on-accent);color:var(--accent);border-color:var(--on-accent)}
.contact .btn:hover{background:transparent;color:var(--on-accent)}
.contact .btn.ghost{background:transparent;color:var(--on-accent);border-color:var(--on-accent)}
.contact .btn.ghost:hover{background:var(--on-accent);color:var(--accent)}
.contact-links{margin-top:22px;font-size:.95rem;opacity:.92}
.contact-links a{text-underline-offset:3px}
.contact-wrap{padding-top:0}

/* Inner pages */
.page-head{padding:56px 0 8px}
.crumbs{font-size:.9rem;color:var(--muted);margin-bottom:18px}
.crumbs a{color:var(--muted);text-underline-offset:3px}
.page-head h1{font-size:clamp(2.1rem,4.6vw,3.3rem);max-width:20ch}
.tldr{margin-top:20px;font-size:1.15rem;color:var(--muted);max-width:62ch}
.updated{margin-top:14px;font-size:.9rem;color:var(--muted)}
.page-body{padding:32px 0 88px}
.prose{max-width:68ch}
.prose h2{font-size:clamp(1.5rem,2.6vw,1.9rem);margin:48px 0 14px;max-width:none}
.prose h3{font-size:1.2rem;margin:26px 0 8px}
.prose p{margin:0 0 16px}
.prose ul{margin:0 0 16px;padding-left:22px}
.prose li{margin-bottom:8px}
.prose a{color:var(--accent);text-underline-offset:3px}
.note{margin:28px 0;padding:22px 26px;border-radius:var(--r-card);background:var(--tint);max-width:68ch}
.note p{margin:0}
.note.warn{background:var(--taupe-tint)}
.cta-row{margin-top:36px}

/* Books */
.books{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:16px;margin-top:8px;max-width:820px}
.book{background:var(--surface);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--r-card);padding:30px;display:grid;grid-template-columns:130px 1fr;gap:28px;align-items:start}
.book .cover{width:130px;height:auto;border-radius:8px;box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(35,44,41,.12),0 10px 24px -12px rgba(35,44,41,.35)}
.book h2{font-size:1.4rem;margin:0;max-width:none}
.book .by{color:var(--muted);font-size:.98rem;margin-top:4px}
.book p{color:var(--muted);margin-top:12px;max-width:58ch}
.book .who{margin-top:12px;color:var(--ink);font-size:.98rem}
.book-links{display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;gap:10px;margin-top:18px}

/* Forms */
.form{margin-top:12px;max-width:640px}
.field{margin-bottom:20px}
.field label,.field legend{display:block;font-weight:600;margin-bottom:8px;font-size:.98rem}
.field .opt{font-weight:400;color:var(--muted)}
.field input[type=text],.field input[type=email],.field input[type=tel],.field select,.field textarea{width:100%;font:inherit;color:var(--ink);background:var(--surface);border:1.5px solid var(--field);border-radius:var(--r-btn);padding:13px 15px}
.field textarea{min-height:150px;resize:vertical}
.field input:focus,.field select:focus,.field textarea:focus{outline:3px solid var(--accent);outline-offset:1px;border-color:var(--accent)}
.help{font-size:.9rem;color:var(--muted);margin-top:6px}
.check{display:flex;gap:12px;align-items:flex-start;margin-bottom:22px}
.check input{margin-top:5px;width:18px;height:18px;accent-color:var(--accent)}
.check label{font-weight:400;margin:0}
.hp{position:absolute;left:-9999px;height:0;overflow:hidden}
.status{margin-top:18px;padding:16px 20px;border-radius:var(--r-btn);font-weight:500}
.status[hidden]{display:none}
.status.ok{background:var(--tint)}
.status.err{background:#F3DDD8;color:#5B1F16}

/* Footer */
footer{border-top:1px solid var(--line);padding:48px 0 56px;color:var(--muted);font-size:.93rem}
footer .cols{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1.4fr 1fr 1fr;gap:32px}
footer h2{font-size:.95rem;color:var(--ink);letter-spacing:0;margin-bottom:10px;max-width:none}
footer ul{list-style:none;margin:0;padding:0}
footer li{margin-bottom:6px}
footer a{text-underline-offset:3px}
footer .fine{margin-top:32px;padding-top:20px;border-top:1px solid var(--line);display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;justify-content:space-between;gap:12px}

.w{display:inline-block}

/* Soft background shapes: quiet color that adds depth without clutter */
.hero,.page-head{position:relative;overflow:hidden;isolation:isolate}
.hero::before,.page-head::before{content:"";position:absolute;z-index:-1;width:560px;height:560px;right:-160px;top:-180px;border-radius:50%;background:radial-gradient(circle,rgba(162,151,151,.30),transparent 68%);pointer-events:none}
.hero::after,.page-head::after{content:"";position:absolute;z-index:-1;width:480px;height:480px;left:-160px;bottom:-200px;border-radius:50%;background:radial-gradient(circle,rgba(150,172,158,.28),transparent 68%);pointer-events:none}

/* Photo band: full-bleed photo beside a large quote */
.photoband{padding:0;background:var(--accent);color:var(--on-accent)}
.photoband .split{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr 1fr;min-height:560px}
.photoband .pic{position:relative;overflow:hidden;background:var(--taupe)}
.photoband .pic img{position:absolute;inset:0;width:100%;height:100%;object-fit:cover;object-position:50% 22%}
.photoband .words{display:flex;flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;gap:22px;padding:72px clamp(28px,6vw,88px)}
.photoband blockquote{margin:0;font-size:clamp(1.7rem,3.2vw,2.6rem);font-weight:600;letter-spacing:-.025em;line-height:1.16}
.photoband p{margin:0;opacity:.92;font-size:1.15rem;max-width:34ch}

/* Inner page header with a photo */
.page-head .wrap.has-pic{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1.15fr .85fr;gap:56px;align-items:center}
.head-pic{border-radius:var(--r-card);overflow:hidden;background:var(--taupe);aspect-ratio:4/5;max-height:440px;box-shadow:var(--shadow)}
.head-pic img{width:100%;height:100%;object-fit:cover;object-position:50% 20%}

.head-fig{margin:0}
.head-pic.wide{aspect-ratio:4/3;max-height:none}
.cap{font-size:.85rem;color:var(--muted);margin-top:10px}

/* Getting started: steps beside an image of an online session */
.start-grid{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1.05fr .95fr;gap:56px;align-items:center;margin-top:8px}
.start-grid .steps{max-width:none}
.start-pic{margin:0}
.start-pic img{width:100%;height:auto;border-radius:var(--r-card);box-shadow:var(--shadow)}

/* Lighthearted aside: "I'm not a judge" */
.judge{display:grid;grid-template-columns:240px 1fr;gap:36px;align-items:center;margin:48px 0;padding:28px;max-width:820px;background:var(--tint);border-radius:var(--r-card)}
.judge img{width:100%;height:auto;border-radius:14px;box-shadow:var(--shadow)}
.judge h2{font-size:clamp(1.5rem,2.6vw,1.9rem);margin:0 0 12px;max-width:none}
.judge p{margin:0;color:var(--ink);max-width:52ch}

/* About photo */
.about-img{box-shadow:var(--shadow)}

/* Motion: every effect is a transform or opacity change, and all of it is off for visitors who prefer reduced motion */
@media (prefers-reduced-motion: no-preference){
  .js .reveal{opacity:0;transform:translateY(16px);transition:opacity .8s var(--ease),transform .8s var(--ease);transition-delay:calc(var(--i,0) * 80ms)}
  .js .reveal.in{opacity:1;transform:none}

  .js .hero .reveal{opacity:1;transform:none;transition:none}
  .js .hero h1 .w{opacity:0;transform:translateY(.6em);animation:rise .9s var(--ease) forwards;animation-delay:calc(120ms + var(--w) * 90ms)}
  .js .hero .lead,.js .hero .actions{opacity:0;transform:translateY(14px);animation:rise .9s var(--ease) forwards}
  .js .hero .lead{animation-delay:620ms}
  .js .hero .actions{animation-delay:780ms}
  @keyframes rise{to{opacity:1;transform:none}}

  .js .portrait{opacity:1;transform:none;transition:none;animation:unveil 1.3s .15s var(--ease) both}
  @keyframes unveil{from{clip-path:inset(12% 0 0 0 round var(--r-card));opacity:0}to{clip-path:inset(0 0 0 0 round var(--r-card));opacity:1}}
  .js .portrait img{transform:scale(1.12);animation:settle 1.8s .15s var(--ease) forwards}
  @keyframes settle{to{transform:scale(1.03)}}
  @supports (animation-timeline: view()){
    .js .portrait img{animation:settle 1.8s .15s var(--ease) forwards,drift linear both;animation-timeline:auto,view();animation-range:normal,exit 0% exit 100%}
    @keyframes drift{to{translate:0 6%}}
  }

  .js .step::before{transform:scaleX(0);transform-origin:left;transition:transform 1s var(--ease);transition-delay:calc(var(--i,0) * 120ms + 100ms)}
  .js .step.in::before{transform:scaleX(1)}

  .cell,.fee,.panel,.book{transition:transform .35s var(--ease)}
  .cell:hover{transform:translateY(-4px)}
  .fee:hover,.panel:hover,.book:hover{transform:translateY(-3px)}
  details.q[open] summary::after{transform:rotate(180deg)}
  details.q[open] p{animation:rise .5s var(--ease) both}

  .photoband .pic img{transform:scale(1.08);transition:transform 6s var(--ease)}
  .js .photoband.in .pic img{transform:scale(1)}
  .contact::before{animation:glow 22s ease-in-out infinite alternate}
  @keyframes glow{from{transform:translate3d(-3%,-2%,0)}to{transform:translate3d(4%,3%,0) scale(1.06)}}
}

/* Small phones: tighter header so nothing runs off screen */
@media (max-width:480px){
  .wrap{padding:0 16px}
  .nav .wrap{gap:10px}
  .nav-right{gap:8px}
  .btn.small{padding:8px 14px;font-size:.88rem}
  .menu summary{padding:8px 12px;font-size:.88rem}
  .brand{font-size:.95rem}
}

/* Responsive: nav collapses under 1040px, layouts go single column under 860px */
@media (max-width:1040px){
  .links{display:none}
  .menu{display:block}
}
@media (max-width:860px){
  section{padding:64px 0}
  .brand span{display:none}
  .hero{padding:28px 0 48px}
  .hero .wrap,.about .wrap,.fees .wrap,.band .wrap{grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:32px;min-height:0}
  .hero h1{max-width:14ch}
  .portrait{max-height:none;aspect-ratio:4/5;order:-1;max-width:420px;justify-self:start}
  .bento{grid-template-columns:1fr}
  .cell,.c-couples,.c-individual,.c-adhd,.c-substance,.c-also{grid-column:auto;grid-row:auto;min-height:0}
  .c-couples{min-height:280px}
  .step{grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:6px}
  .fee-cards,.duo,.facts{grid-template-columns:1fr}
  .contact{padding:44px 26px}
  .about-img{max-width:440px}
  .book{grid-template-columns:92px 1fr;gap:18px;padding:20px}
  .book .cover{width:92px}
  .start-grid{grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:28px}
  .judge{grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:20px;padding:22px}
  .judge img{max-width:240px}
  .photoband .split{grid-template-columns:1fr;min-height:0}
  .photoband .pic{aspect-ratio:4/3}
  .photoband .words{padding:44px 24px}
  .page-head .wrap.has-pic{grid-template-columns:1fr;gap:28px}
  .head-pic{max-height:none;aspect-ratio:4/3;max-width:520px}
  footer .cols{grid-template-columns:1fr}
  .page-head{padding-top:36px}
}